Welcome to episode 01 of the PULSE PODCAST , My newest offering of Liberating Love .
Think short(ish) audios , with me, and the occasional interview with other couples from around the world, unpacking some real talk and grounded honesty when it comes to relationships, communication, intimacy and parenthood.
I’m stoked to be offering this as I know many of you prefer the option to listen and unpack rather than just read, and substack is a great holding place for both written and audio.
Here’s the beginning of the written notes to this audio below.
Episode one & the written version are a similar conversation, linked to each other but are in fact different publications.
The Pulse Podcast allows me the space to riff on the topic and dive down relevant tangents, taking time to unpack things with you. The written version is straight to the point.
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Tully
I don’t feel adored.
I don’t feel desired.’
We sat on the rug in front of the fire.
My wife Kat was sharing with me how she’d been feeling lately.
Unadored.
Undesired.
Not unappreciative.
Simply the truth of her feelings.
But
I felt like I WAS providing and caring for her.
I was:
Working and providing financially.
Cutting down work hours to have our family time
Taking Rafi (my son) more to give her more space
Doing the majority of the domestics so she could feel nourished and have a safe space to relax.
I was taking care of her.
I was providing for her on a number of levels.
AND
There was still more her heart longed for...
Listen above for the full episode, or find the written version in my archives.
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